Monday, May 19, 2008

Goodbye old friend

Friday was a busy day. A VERY busy day. As I mentioned in my previous post, Julia had field day. Afterward, we went to get Lili and Simon from our friends' house, dropped by a fellow Kindergarten mom's house to give her pictures from field day, then went home to get Julia ready for her second performance of "Here Comes the Sun" (a musical theater production). I also needed to go by the bank to have her "medical release form" notorized for her soccer tournament the next day. I was doing awesome! We were running on time and everything. I got to the bank, but didn't have my license (oops!) and had to run home to get it. I did (Lili had fallen asleep and we still had plenty of time) and then we were on our way again. I had just turned on to the second street away from our house when it happened.

I went to set the form (yes, the same one that needed to be notorized) down in the seat next to me, and looked down as I did so. I drifted a bit wide and jumped the curb a little bit (with my front passenger tire). The problem was that there was a big, solid brick mailbox there. I hit it with my car (I did not even have time to hit the brakes or anything).

Well, as we know, with every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.

The reaction was for my car to roll...

all the way to its roof.

It was terrifying. Thankfully we were all okay, just a bit shaken (no pun intended).

I climbed out of my shattered window, through the broken glass, but stopped, crawled back in, turned off the car, crawled back out, then went to Julia's door. I opened the door, she unbuckled herself and fell to the floor, er, roof. All the kids were crying. It was NOT comfortable to be upside down.

When it happened, Liliana screamed and then started crying saying, "We're upside down! We're upside down!" (what a horrible way to get woken up!)
Simon was just crying (a fussy cry mostly).
Julia was just upset, saying things like, "Oh no Mommy! We're upside down! Our car! Our car flipped! Are you okay Mommy?" She was so worried about me the whole time.

Anyway, after I got Julia away from the car, I got Simon out. I unbuckled his bottom buckle and he still didn't come out (the top buckle was not yet undone). Once I realized that was keeping him in, I pulled on it from the side (it was weird with it upside down), he came undone and I pulled him to me. He stopped crying once I was holding him. I got a little blood on him (my hand was bleeding from the glass - nothing serious), which the paramedics had to make sure was mine and not his when they got there. Then, when I ran around to Liliana's side, a neighbor was already there helping her. By then, we were quite surrounded by all the neighbors. Thank goodness everyone was okay!

The police, paramedics and fire department all came. So did several neighbors and close friends (thank you all so much)! Eventually, so did the wrecker service. They turned the car (it sounded awful - like fingernails on a chalkboard), then flipped it right side up...and then hauled it away. But, not before I filled four or five Target bags with the junk I had inside it (yes, another embarrassment). All my neighbors were so helpful. They brought water, juice, and gummy bears for the kids. The police officers gave them stuffed animals and everything too.

During the ordeal, I felt like I had mulitple personality disorder. One minute I'm calmly talking to the kids, hugging them, telling them things like, "Wow, look at our car, it's upside down." To which Julia replied, "It's not funny Mommy." I said, "I know it's not funny sweetheart, I'm just so glad we all got out of there okay."

I'm sure it helped a lot that I was going maybe 20 mph! My airbags didn't even deploy!

Anyway, as I was saying...the next minute a neighbor or friend would come over to me and I'd start crying while I hugged them. Then, I'd see that it was starting to upset the girls, so I'd switch back to "calm Mommy." Whew!

I declined the ambulance and sat there and waited 'til Nate arrived (surrounded by loving friends and concerned neighbors). Several friends offered to take the girls, but Julia DID NOT want to leave my side. She was so sweet. Lili had been so quiet, but finally started talking when people she knew were there. She ended up going to the neighborhood pool with some friends for a little while.

I had a really bad headache and started to feel nauseated. So, by the time Nate got there (and ironed out the details of where the car was going, what would be done about the mailbox, etc.), we decided I should go get checked at the hospital (the kids too, just to be sure).

We went to our friend's hospital and got in really quickly (and were treated very nicely I might add). The doctor thought I might have a slight concussion (he had me stand with my feet together and close my eyes - I was all over the place! I thought I might fall!) They gave me a CT scan and it came back normal, so that was good. I was glad I got checked. They gave me a couple shots to help with my headache and the muscle soreness to come. Let's just say I was quite loopy after that! And, within ten minutes of the shots I was ready to sleep!

I keep finding new bruises and bumps! When I took a shower I realized I'd bumped my head in more than one place. Nothing like shampooing your hair to find that out!

Sorry to ramble on, but I wanted to get "the whole story" out, complete with all the details. If I forgot anything, I'm sure I'll add it!

There you have it...the very long-winded story to explain these pictures...
{thank you for the pictures Xela!}

My poor, poor Outback! You were a good car! But, now I guess we'll have to get a minivan! Nate jokingly told me that I didn't have to go to such elaborate measures to get the minivan (hahaha). He's such a crack-up!

Okay, I admit...it was funny.

Anyway, the moral of the story?

NO MULTI-TASKING IN THE CAR!

Enough said.

13 comments:

Sands...Like Sands on the Beach said...

wowee that was quite the ordeal. . .when Xela called me my stomach just dropped. . I couldn't believe it was you. And how thankful I was that the car seats worked and everyone was totally ok! Prayers were answered that day! Sad to say, we will the outback also!

Nathan said...

I'm really going to miss those white walls. They really helped pick this sweet ride out of a crowd.

Melanie said...

oh to hear all the details like that makes my stomache turn in anxiety again! i'm so glad that xela started the phone call with "everyone is okay" because the minute i heard "car rolled over" i thought i was going to lose it! i love that julia was so protective of her mommy:) love you all!

Lori Ellsworth said...

That was so crazy to turn the corner and see! I'm so glad that you were all ok.

Johnson Family said...

I am so glad to hear you are all ok! Multi-tasking is a problem of mine too. That is so scary especially when you have to be strong for little ones. What a crazy week for cars huh?

Jeannette said...

Lauren, that is so scary. You are so lucky that you didn't get seriously hurt. Take care of yourself and KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE ROAD.

Anonymous said...

I am so glad that you are all okay. How scary. Take it easy and hopefully your injuries will heal quickly.

Anonymous said...

You are so lucky, I am so glad you are in good health and the kids made it safe. i was so worried about you when xe called and told me about it. But I even told Xe, at least she will FINALLY get a new car.

Emi Edgley said...

so if you were traveling at 20 mph, how fast was the mailbox moving? they should put a ban on brick encased mailboxes. --steve

we are glad you are all safe, and that you can even talk and joke about the accident.

Britt Wright said...

Lo, I'm so glad everybody was ok. Our hearts and prayers were out to your cute little family. And still are! I called Nate right when you got to the hospital...and I'm glad everything turned out great. Love you guys!

Emily S. said...

Oh, Lauren-- I am just now reading this and HOLY COW. What a scary thing. Especially seeing the photos!!
Your kids were so brave, as were you. I am so glad it ended up being all right for all of you....

:(

Kristin said...

Ok, it's been awhile since I checked the blog...I first saw the pancake entry and had to scroll down quickly to get the scoop. How scary...you guys sure are blessed to have come out of the car with only bumps and bruises. I am a shameless multitasker (given 1/2 of my day is spent in the car while at work), let me just say lesson learned...I will definately be more cautious! So glad you are alright!

Linda (Mom #2) said...

Lauren,
What have I told you about keeping FOUR wheels on the ground!!! Thank God that all of you are not injured. Just hope this lesson reaches Kristin and her multi-tasking on the road...I pray for her daily.

Love, Linda